Experiencing Japan for the First Time
By Berit Bizjak
I had never been to Japan before, but when both my husband and son were entered to run the Tokyo Marathon, we knew we had to turn it into a family adventure. The four of us traveled from New York City to Tokyo, excited for the race and equally eager to immerse ourselves in a culture we’d only admired from afar.
My very first impression of Japan? Politeness and kindness at every turn. From airport staff to strangers on the street, we were met with genuine courtesy, and I was instantly taken with how pristine and technologically advanced everything was—yet deeply rooted in long-valued traditions. In Japan, honor, cleanliness, and respect for others and the environment are not just ideals—they are everyday practices, seamlessly woven into modern life.
As a luxury wedding and travel photographer, I was in awe of the balance between refined minimalism and ornate tradition, and I couldn’t wait to capture it all through my lens.
Tokyo: Race Day, Family, and City Lights
Our first few days in Tokyo were focused on adjusting to the 14-hour time difference (hello, jet lag!) and getting ready for marathon day. While the runners rested and trained, my daughter and I planned our own “race” to catch both of our runners along different points of the 26.2-mile course. Armed with maps and Tokyo’s incredibly efficient metro system—which, by the way, had digital signage in multiple languages showing open and closed routes—we set off.
Race day was hot, but the city buzzed with excitement. There were armies of volunteers, cheering crowds, and a true sense of community. Whether you know someone running or not, there’s something magical about watching thousands of runners push themselves, cheered on by perfect strangers. And yes, I was the proudest wife and mom—our son ran his personal best at 2:40:45, which still gives me chills.
Of course, no trip to Tokyo would be complete without a stop at the famous Shibuya Crossing. Standing there, watching up to 3,000 people cross every two minutes, I was mesmerized. It’s known as the largest pedestrian intersection in the world—and for good reason. (See photo below.) Tokyo street photography doesn’t get more iconic than this.
Kyoto: Tradition, Temples, and Tranquility
After the excitement of Tokyo, we took the high-speed Shinkansen train to Kyoto—and it did not disappoint. I’ve never been on a train so immaculately clean and orderly. Honestly, the floors looked clean enough to eat off of. We didn’t even need to leave our seats for snacks; a simple QR code brought coffee and treats right to our seats. Efficiency meets elegance.
We stayed at The Blossom, a luxury boutique hotel in the heart of Kyoto, and it served as the perfect home base for exploring the city’s rich history. I fell in love with Kyoto’s temples, each one adorned with prayer boards, colorful flags, delicate lanterns, and serene gardens.
One of the most memorable experiences was climbing Arashiyama Monkey Park, surrounded by bamboo forests and rewarded with stunning views—and some curious little primates at the top. (Photo-worthy, of course!)
As a fine art travel photographer, I couldn’t get enough of the soft, filtered light, the harmony of nature and architecture, and the sheer attention to detail everywhere we went. It was a dream to photograph.
Reflections on Japan: A Culture of Respect and Beauty
Japan is a country where modern innovation and ancient tradition exist in perfect harmony. During our 10-day trip, I was struck by the country’s commitment to cleanliness and environmental respect—I didn’t see a single piece of litter the entire time. The artistry in everything—from traditional crafts to cuisine—reflects a culture of patience, skill, and grace.
The people of Japan welcomed us with genuine smiles and warmth, and the delicate beauty constantly inspired me in everyday life. And speaking of beauty—let’s talk about the food. One of my favorite moments was enjoying a bowl of vegan ramen on a cold, cloudy day. It wasn’t just food—it was art in a bowl (see photo). Simple, elegant, and unforgettable.
I know I’ll return to Japan someday—hopefully when the cherry blossoms are in full bloom, adding another layer of romantic elegance to an already magical destination. 日本の皆様、おもてなしに感謝します。またこの美しい国を訪れたいと思います。
Our Favorite Restaurants, Bars and Coffee in Japan
Coffee Aoi Tokyo. Even watching the process of the pour-over was artistic! The Kenyan coffee is as smooth as silk.
Walden Woods Cafe, Kyoto
Teppanyaki Manryu, Kyoto: This is a friendly, family-run restaurant. There are only about 18 seats, so make your reservation!
Planning a Destination Wedding in Japan?
As a luxury wedding and destination photographer, I’m always exploring elegant, culturally rich locations worldwide. Japan offers an incredible backdrop for intimate destination weddings or elopements, from Zen gardens to historic temples and modern cityscapes. If you’re dreaming of a wedding in Japan or anywhere abroad, I’d love to help you bring that vision to life with timeless, fine-art photography that tells your story.
Let’s connect. You can explore more of my destination wedding portfolio here, or feel free to reach out to discuss your plans for a luxury celebration abroad.
